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How to latch and suckle correctly
The Most Common Question About ANR: How to Be a Great Suckler?
This is probably the most sought-after question for men and one of the most anticipated experiences for women in an Adult Nursing Relationship (ANR).
Every ANR partner I’ve had the pleasure of being with has mentioned that I’m a great suckler. So, I figured I’d share my experiences and techniques to help others who are curious about this intimate act—since I can’t be everywhere, helping out! Haha.
Personally, I find ANR to be incredibly relaxing, and it can be quite erotic, depending on the mood. But no matter the context, my goal is always to ensure that she enjoys the experience just as much, if not more, than I do.
When I think about ANR, I keep one key concept in mind: It’s her body we’re drawing from. She’s doing the hard work by producing the milk, while we, as sucklers, just have to suckle. So, it’s in our best interest to learn everything we can and be as attentive to her needs as possible.
Understanding the Basics of Latching and Milk Extraction
One of the most common misconceptions when starting out is thinking that milk comes directly from the nipple. While it exits through the nipple, that’s only part of the story. The milk is actually produced in the Alveoli, which are small grape like sacs inside the breast. The areola is where the milk ducts are located, and a proper latch helps guide the milk from the ducts to the nipple for extraction.
Getting a good latch doesn’t just help with milk flow; it also protects her nipples. A correct latch prevents soreness, especially during long nursing sessions, and helps relieve the pressure from engorged breasts more efficiently if she hasn’t pumped in a while.
Now, some might think, “Why not just squeeze the milk into my mouth?” Well, it’s not that simple, and it certainly doesn’t provide the same connection or satisfaction for either partner. Trust me, if you’re only squeezing her breasts flat, you likely won’t get invited back for another session.
How to Get a Good Latch
To get a proper latch, open your mouth wide and place it over her areola, not just the nipple. Use your tongue and cheeks to suckle, much like sucking on a pacifier. This keeps her areola and nipple in place and ensures that you’re drawing milk effectively.
Now comes the tricky part: as you suckle, your tongue should glide under her nipple and along the areola. Gently press the tip of your tongue upwards, slowly guiding the milk from her areola to your mouth. This takes practice, and it’s natural for your mouth to get sore, especially if you’re new to this.
When your mouth starts to tire, take a break. This is a good time to massage her breasts, have a conversation, or simply rest. Personally, I like to ask my partner how she’s feeling—whether I should suckle harder or softer, or if she prefers more or less pressure from my tongue. Open communication is key to making this a mutually enjoyable experience.
Massaging the Breasts
While suckling, you can also massage her breasts to help with milk flow. Start gently, just above her breast, and work your way down in a soft, downward motion. This isn’t meant to be erotic—just a gentle way of helping her body along. Once you reach close to your mouth, start over, gradually increasing the pressure if she’s comfortable with it.
Each woman is different, so some may appreciate this more than others. Always be open, honest, and attentive to her reactions. You can massage the area above her breast, the sides, and even underneath if it feels comfortable for her.
Understanding Milk Flow: Dribblers vs. Streamers
Every woman’s milk flow is different. Some lactating women are dribblers, while others are streamers. If she starts with streams of milk and it begins to dribble, keep suckling. This signals to her body that more milk is needed, and while it won’t produce more instantly, her body will adjust over time to meet the demand.
Don’t Worry About Perfection—Every Woman is Different
Most new sucklers won’t get it right the first time. In fact, each partner and each breast can be completely different. One breast may be more cooperative than the other, so don’t be afraid to experiment with different angles and techniques to find what works best for both of you.
If you’re having trouble getting the milk to flow, try having her straddle you while you’re seated. This positioning uses gravity to help draw the milk down toward the nipple, making it easier to extract.
Final Thoughts: Respect and Communication
Ultimately, every ANR is unique, and what works for one couple may not work for another. The most important thing is to communicate openly and respect each other’s boundaries. If your partner isn’t comfortable with a certain technique or position, listen to her and don’t push it. Respect is the foundation of any successful ANR, and it will make the experience more fulfilling for both of you.
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